We live in a world obsessed with labels. Days are divided into “good” and “bad,” mornings into “productive” or “wasted.” Even our emotions are stamped with judgment: happiness is praised, sadness is pitied, anger is feared. But what if all of this is just an illusion—a story we’ve been telling ourselves for so long that we’ve forgotten to question it?
Time is the most subtle trickster. When we label moments, we unconsciously turn the present into the past or the future. Nostalgia tugs at us for what we’ve lost, while expectation pressures us toward what we haven’t yet achieved. In both cases, we miss the only reality that truly exists: the here and now.
Ram Dass once reminded us to free ourselves from the illusion of good and bad days. There is no calendar or clock that defines the quality of a moment. A “bad” day may carry lessons we cannot see yet; a “good” day may hold hidden discomforts. The judgment is ours, not life’s.
The practice, then, is simple—but not always easy: let life be what it is. Stop measuring, stop ranking, stop forcing the present to conform to your expectations. Observe the sensations in your body, the flow of thoughts, the rhythm of your breath. Let yourself feel what is, without insisting it be different.
When we release the need to label, time becomes a vast, unbroken landscape. Each moment is a note in the song of life—neither better nor worse than the next. Presence replaces judgment, acceptance replaces resistance, and peace replaces the subtle anxiety of trying to control everything.
The next time you find yourself calling a day “good” or “bad,” pause. Feel the textures of the moment as they are. Notice your body, your mind, your surroundings. There is no past to mourn, no future to demand. There is only this. Let it be.
