There’s a quiet kind of freedom in realizing this truth: you are not responsible for the version of you that exists in other people’s minds.
It’s so easy to fall into the trap of trying to be understood, to be liked, to be seen in the “right” light. Maybe you’ve tried to prove yourself, correct people’s assumptions, or reshape your personality just to fit someone else’s expectations. But eventually, that becomes exhausting. And more importantly — it becomes a cage.
People will project their experiences onto you. They’ll filter your actions through their own lens, their own insecurities, and their own beliefs. Some will misread your silence as coldness, your confidence as arrogance, your kindness as weakness. But none of that changes who you actually are. Their version of you? That’s a reflection of them, not a reflection of your truth.
You don’t need to explain yourself to be whole.
You don’t need to shrink to make someone else comfortable. You don’t need to soften your shine just because someone else can’t handle your light. Let them misunderstand you. Let them think what they want. It’s not your job to manage their perception. Your job is to stay aligned with who you know you are.
The people meant for you won’t need convincing. They’ll feel your energy. They’ll recognize your intention. And they’ll see you — not their assumptions about you.
Set yourself free from the weight of their opinion.
Stop replaying conversations in your head, wondering if you could’ve said something differently. Stop molding yourself into someone more “palatable.” Let go of the version of you that’s been built out of fear, people-pleasing, or survival. And return to the real you — the one that’s been waiting to breathe.
You’re not here to live in someone else’s narrative.
You’re here to write your own.
And that’s more than okay — it’s powerful.
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